Yin Earth is good fertile soil. The human character associated with this element is characterized by softness and complaisance. It is not difficult to gain his trust; he is very kind and gives himself entirely to the benefit of others.
Such dedication sometimes leads to the fact that he is simply used for his own purposes. He is easily suggestible and susceptible to the opinions of others, so he often gets lost and can end up in bad company. Unfortunately, a person of the Yin Earth element can sympathize and provide support to those whose ideas and plans are not entirely pure. If he falls under the influence of others, then, like plasticine, he can be molded into anything. But if you accidentally hurt his soul, his suffering will be extremely painful and painful.
Like the Yin Earth, this person is a storehouse of selflessness and love. He has highly developed parental instincts and a sense of caring for others. Such people make wonderful mothers and fathers, and their families are usually large. In addition to their children, they often adopt orphans, devoting themselves entirely to the educational process, but sometimes they show excessive care.
Such a person is drawn to the earth; he does not accept megacities, preferring to live in small towns. Yin earth loves nature, animals, natural products and adheres to healthy image life. The ultimate dream of his is to have his own home, where he could plant a garden and plant a flower garden. Since he is not demanding, he can adapt to any situation, being content with little.
A Yin Earth person is usually intellectually developed, but at the same time conservative. Has difficulty accepting new technologies and the fast pace of life, preferring to do everything “the old fashioned way.” In everyday clothes, he is classically reserved and modest, avoiding bright colors, although the sense of taste is well developed. He is absolutely not vindictive, so it is easier for such a person to forgive and forget the troubles caused to him than to hatch plans for revenge. He is always friendly and welcomes guests, the atmosphere of his home is invariably filled with coziness, sincerity and comfort.
Compatibility of Yin Earth and other elemental personalities
Perhaps no one can destroy the mutual attraction of the Yin Earth and the Yang Tree. These elements are so harmonious in their union that many simply envy the sensitivity, loyalty and dedication that reigns in this family. Their children are treated kindly, and their house is full. In this case, the career goes far into the background.
The relationship between the Yin Earth and the representative of the Yin Tree is developing well, but is far from ideal. They are accommodating in everyday nuances, but in personal relationships a “consumer note” often slips through. Partners use each other for their own purposes, which often results in resentment and mutual reproaches.
With my client's permission, I will make her fate and her bazi chart public. Let's figure out why two people couldn't build real family relationships based on love and respect.
Here are their bazi cards
Woman card
Man card
Surprisingly similar cards, right? Well, everything is as it should be, people are born in the same year and even in the same month.
“The relationship has always been difficult, but we were together for almost 8 years. Another one appeared and he left."
And there are many indications that we could live in harmony.
The first is that Daytime Dominants are the same. People have similar views on life and relationships, but... their fears and doubts, alas, are also the same. And if you remember the characteristics of Yin Fire, a lot will become clear.
» The most impulsive and hot-tempered, unpredictable and independent personality type compared to the other ten. Just as the flame of a fire flares up or goes out at the slightest breath of breeze, so typical Yin Fire is very sensitive and emotional and is ready to flare up at any moment. Or heat it, or bring it to a boil, or light it, or burn it to the ground.
And people of Yin Fire are afraid of mistakes and failures and do not know how to learn from mistakes. And, unfortunately, they are easy to manipulate.”
And as a result, two candles, instead of illuminating the space of their lives, drooped and... broke up.
There is one peculiarity of the Daytime Dominant, Yin Fire. She needs support, a Seal, she needs “material” in order to “burn”.
In the men's map there is only one tree, the Tiger, and that is in the void. The women's chart contains both the Tiger and the Rabbit. The woman is stronger. And her Marriage House is empty. It’s not very comfortable for a man in such a house. However, if you look more closely, you can see that in marriage with this man, the Pig is brought out of the void (a triangle of Tree, Hai, Mao, Wei is formed) and the Tree is strengthened in the charts of both spouses. There are indications that the compatibility is very good.
So what's the deal? Why did the first marital experience turn out to be “the first damn thing”?
For people to live together happily ever after, a lot of instructions and tacts are required life path must be synchronous, the phases in the Houses of Marriage must be high. No ominous events should come.
So, Yin Fire in the Pig is the “conception” phase, Yin Fire in the Goat is the “hat-belt” phase. A woman is more comfortable in a man’s House of Marriage than he is in her House of Marriage.
Let's look at the images of husband and wife for Daytime Dominatrix Teen.
For a Tin woman, her husband is Ren (Yang Water). How will he feel in her House of Marriage?
Oh...the “finding happiness” phase.
Well for him? For Tin, a wife is Gen (Metal Yang).
And in Goat there is a phase for the “hat-belt” gene.
Yeah…. Our couple’s marriage houses are simply created to ensure that the spouses feel comfortable and cozy there. It is a pity that for a woman her Marriage House can only create such conditions for her husband from time to time. But for this man everything was exactly as written above.
So what's the deal? Why did you break up? Why did you go to someone else?
Let's look at the cards of former spouses from a slightly different angle. The house of marriage will tell us what a woman expects from marriage, how she sees her spouse.
The Yin fire of the female card sits on the Pig (on the image of Power). A woman is ready to obey her husband, she has traditional views on marriage, but at the same time, she expects protection, help, and care from her husband. She wishes to be Married.
And she needs a man older than her, with a more respectable life experience than her same age.
But this was not the main reason for the divorce. The man left.
And here it is necessary to look at what came “from time”: Tacts of luck of two people.
Alas, alas, alas...
Wife card
Husband card
For 10 years, the couple entered into battles, which resulted in one of the most violent and dangerous clashes. And what do these beats bring to the cards of the spouses?
The triangle of the Tree (Hai, Mao, Wei) is broken by the Snake of tact.
The woman's day pillar is under complete collision. And this is an indication that the events of the 10th anniversary will primarily affect her and... the elements of Power (husband, friend, boss, Water, Yin for Fire)
His Pig takes the Tiger out of the void and takes him into the merger.
And to be brief, then... the coming beats caused such a strong movement of the cards of both spouses that it could not go unnoticed.
See, in addition to all of the above.
The Snake “harms” the Tiger, merges with the Monkey, breaks the triangular combination of the Tree and... The Boar again descends into the void (but in in this case no longer encounters the Snake). And only the Rabbit remains out of work for the time being.
In the Heavenly Trunks, Yin Water tries to “extinguish” the flame of the Ting candle, helping in this with the Yin Water already built into the map. The attack on the Day Dominant is quite strong. Everything suggests that some events are coming.
And then... 2011 comes. In Heaven, for a man, the image of another woman, not his wife, appears. This is the year of Xin Mao (Yin Metal on the Rabbit).
The rabbit, although not by day, but by year, is its own Peach Blossom. And... one more thing: the man’s card no longer needs the Pig and Rabbit from his wife’s card. Their own Goat (House of marriage), Boar (tact) and Rabbit (year) form the triangle of the Tree and….”chain” the House of marriage of a man, but…. with another woman.
In turn, Xin merges with the Bin Heavenly Stems in both cards and gives... Water.
There is a lot of water.
If you imagine all the movements in the form of a picture of nature, you will get something like this:
It was a hot day, the sun was shining, there was a lot of fire, it was warm, dry and sultry.
And suddenly there was a feeling of coolness, light clouds began to run across the sky. They started swirling and forming clouds. The sky was covered with a dark purple cloud, the sun disappeared and... the rain poured down.
Indeed, 2011 was a high point in the relationship. There was too much water and two people began to be carried in different directions.
I have a question. When will a woman get married again?
Surely this will happen in the next measure of Ren Chen. And you should choose a husband who is older and has life experience.
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Svetlana was born in January 83, this is the month of the Water Ox according to the Chinese calendar. The day on which she was born is called Ji Yu - the Lady of her day is the Yin Earth on the Yin Metal - the Rooster.
The earth of yin, Ji, is considered the best for a woman, as it symbolizes softness, tenderness, femininity, sincerity, practicality and integrity. Women with a strong element of Yin earth, like Svetlana, are very stable in life, they know what they want and no matter how difficult it is for them, they will achieve it. Women of the Yin land are rarely beautiful with cold beauty, rather they are characterized by soft captivation and tenderness, but Sveta has a very strong element of the day, in which metal is born all the more, therefore she also has the uncompromising hardness of Yin metal, which I wrote about in the article about Oles Sudzilovskaya.
G women constantly need to give their energy to someone, to support someone, if they don’t do this, they begin to look stupid and feel bad.
The whole range of warm clothes suits the girls brown shades, as well as green and blue. Those. natural colors- yours.
Imagine fertile soil, especially since it is softened by water, wet soil - it seems so soft, viscous and pliable, right? It seems that you can fall into it or sculpt whatever you want... but that’s not the case, Svetlana has a good supply of metal in her map. Yes, she seems outwardly soft and good-natured - just remember the film “Take Care of the Woman.” But its essence, the core, is cold and hard metal. So, now that Svetlana has lost a lot of weight and has begun to look a lot like the standards of Hollywood beauties and we can no longer remember her sweet plumpness in 2003, this has only blown the superficial stuff off our hard nut. No, she, of course, will show good nature and gentleness,
caring, but...not with my husband. Let's just say that her affection is only for a select few. I can’t say that she became bitter, because... this is its essence. The winds of change blew away the fertile layer of soil, revealing a precious rock... which we owe to Svetlana’s talented play. Metal for Yin Earth is self-expression, which includes creativity.
For a harmonious and full life, the Yin Earth needs water and the sun - Yin water and Yang fire. There is almost no fire in the actress’s chart, so her chart can be classified as cold, even icy, since she was born in the coldest month of winter. I don’t know the time of Svetlana’s birth, so I can’t judge her hour pillar, which contains information about children, but it can be said that it is much more difficult for women with a cold card to conceive a child, she needs to be warmed up - with the qualities of Fire, which, by the way, , also applies to television and film activities. So, we can say that Sveta subconsciously does everything possible for her chart to balance it.
It’s not just about children - the support that Ogonyang, or cinema, theater gives to Svetlana’s card, balances her card and allows her not to get sick, not to lose attractiveness, and to gain the love of those around her. If you have the same cold card, then you need fire for happiness.
However, with Svetlana it is a different story. Look, if suddenly a lot of Fire came into her chart, the Fire would dry up her water, she would become dry, callous, aggressive (since the fire would first fight the water), and would lose the love of loved ones. And so, our Svetlana lives her whole life, surrounded by cold incoming beats, like the Snow Queen in her domain. She is not just cold, she is icy, she has become one with her cold and loves only night fire - the flame of a candle, Yin fire. Her last role in the film “Bathory” - is this a gentle Yin land?) No, this is icy and frozen, which is why the evil and unemotional metal lady is part of her.
She is undoubtedly a creative and talented person, she is very smart and loves to study - the card contains the symbolic stars “Blooming Canopy” and “Academician’s Star”.
Success came to Svetlana in 2003, with the appearance of the film “Bless the Woman.” It was the year of the Water Goat, and clearly something happened in the year this film was released, something that almost turned Svetlana away from cinema. Perhaps she didn’t like the director’s attitude towards her or the image that was formed after the film’s release. And here’s the story - it’s good for her to be soft, feminine, gentle, life-giving. It is not good for her to be tough, cold, expressive. But such is her map that it is unusual for her to show softness and warmth, and it is difficult to go against her inner nature, especially since her icy image has become in demand.
For her, the Goat is the year that forms the Earthly Punishment. Unfortunately, we cannot find out what happened to her 12 years ago - the year Govorukhin’s film was released, but we can trace what will happen this year - most likely it will affect her career and relations with the world - it is unlikely that those projects in which she will participate will have a positive effect on her image, although they will certainly attract even more interest in her. In addition, this year Svetlana should monitor her health, because... Troubles with the chest and thyroid gland are possible.
It is known about Svetlana that she got married in 2005, they probably met in 2004, it was the year of her husband’s open energy, the same notorious “Correct Power”. In 2005, when the husband’s energy was still strong, they got married. But. There is no husband as such in Svetlana’s chart. This does not mean that she will not get married, but it means that she herself and creativity, and then children will always be more important than a man. Yes - good, no - also good. Therefore, in 2010, with the advent of the year of the Metal Tiger, because Metal cuts down the Tree of Power, the time of marriage for Sveta ended. I think she was just tired, because rough Yan Metal is also an Attack on Power, i.e. here ambitions and determination took over, the husband no longer had a place in the actress’s life.
In 2011, Svetlana starred in the film "Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy", it was the year of the Metal (again!) Rabbit, with the Peach Blossom, which bestows fame, attention and fans, she should only act in such years, and world fame will last for generations guaranteed)) In addition, Metal for Svetlana is an element of self-expression, creativity, and several more films from the “Love in the City” series were successful for Svetlana in 2010 and 2011.
2011, in which the actress starred in a successful project for herself, was also successful on a personal level - after all, the peach flower primarily attracts the opposite sex) They flock like bees to the scent) So Svetlana in 2011 met a man who is next to her these years. One would have expected them to get married last year, but, again, Svetlana is too ambitious and immersed in her projects. Perhaps they will get married this year, although this year is not at all good for a wedding.
This year, two insidious stars came to Svetlana - “Shelter of Loneliness” and “Sheep’s Knife”. All year the actress will be tormented by discomfort and, due to her character, she will try to do everything to avoid unnecessary worries - she will go to work, take care of business. Also, this year is harmful for her relationship with her partner, there will be a cooling in them, even to the point of breaking up, and whether she will keep them is a question of their internal balance.
If they asked me, I would recommend that they start a family in 2016, this year will be good for Svetlana, although she will need to change a lot in herself. But...it’s unlikely that she will get married in the coming years, because the “Attack on power” tact, in which she will remain until 2018, is favorable for creativity and independence, but the authority of a man and his decisions are very doubtful in the beautiful eyes of “Viper” "...) A lot here depends on synastry - the interaction of the cards of both partners. If her man’s chart, for example, has enough earth and metal, then Svetlana’s indicator will work as “hers,” if there is a lot of Wood, she will read it as dangerous for her career, and in this case the relationship will be temporary.
By the way, if we take Vladimir Yaglych, ex-husband Svetlana, he is only a week older - here the external indicator of “one of his own” worked, but internally he is not her person at all. Surely he was too fickle for her, shallow, his authority was exaggerated, although in his own way he was the person who influenced the development of her personality - with his help she understood what she really wanted. So, somewhere these relationships were built on the principle of “despite”. Roughly speaking, Svetlana turned out to be too hard a nut to crack for Vladimir. And he is essentially a loner; he simply did not consider it necessary to try particularly hard for the sake of her relationship. He is unlikely to have a long-term marriage in the future.
Girls, remember, if your husband or boyfriend has a “Lonely Phoenix” in the pillar of his marriage, then expecting him to show wild affection for home and your warm side is unnecessary. He will always have a desire to live alone, there will be no craving for marriage, so only you will have to try and keep him...)) But this is a topic for another conversation.
And this year we wish Svetlana kindness, gentleness, love of life... because she already has determination, toughness and intolerance to the fullest
This is such a non-standard Yin Earth today
What is hidden behind the concept of “The Ideal Wife”?
Attentive, caring, kind and compassionate, ready to help and support in trouble and share joy.
All men dream of such a wife, not everyone gets one :-)
So:
Earth-yang woman considered one of the most reliable and faithful wives. She is caring, not intrusive, calm and confident in herself and her family. For her, the most important thing is peace of mind, health and confidence in the future for her family.
Yin Earth Woman.
Also one of the most caring, loyal and reliable. However, the care of the Yin Earth can go “off scale” and her guardianship and care turns into supervision and control. The Yin Earth woman has undeniable advantages, since she acts absolutely selflessly in the interests of the family.
Fire-Yang Woman.
Just as the bright Sun illuminates the earth and gives its warmth to the whole world, so the Yang Fire woman will also illuminate and warm her home. She will work, Ogon-yan cannot just sit and wait for “mercies from her husband.” These women are very sexy, bright and ambitious
Tree-Yang Woman.
Proud and strong, they will help their husband with pleasure and skill in his business and work. But, at the same time, they are able to free her husband from caring about her and the family.
These women will be able to help their husband expand his business, but they lack love, passion and emotions.
Women - Yin Water — smart and witty, full of bright ideas.
Women of this personality type are attracted to the fact that being with him is always interesting and not boring. They are always different. Today she is a romantic person with a gentle smile, and tomorrow she is a socialite with a languid gaze.
These are the most successful candidates for the role of the Good Wife.
Although, naturally, other personality types, which I have not yet talked about, have their own merits and “zest”.
I would like to note some features of Water-yang, as a wife and wife.
Water-yang too strong and unpredictable to be a wife and mother in the patriarchal sense of the word.
Water-yang is unrestrained in its ideas, which it immediately tries to bring to life. She does not obey and does not obediently follow her husband.
It’s quite difficult with her and it’s not easy for her either. She cannot live with a dictator, but she doesn’t want a henpecked husband either.
Only a sufficiently strong Earth-Yang can cope with a Water-Yang woman. And then their union will be bright, but harmonious.
There is another type of woman for whom it is quite difficult to be good and obedient wives.
This Metal-yang. Sword, tank, steel power, this is what is associated with yang Metal. Such a woman will not humbly wait until she is allowed to express her opinion. She will not even express it, but will simply begin to implement it.
A man who decides to marry a Metal-Yan woman will have to prove throughout his life that he is worthy of her, and she, accordingly, of him.
When analyzing the cards of a man and a woman for their compatibility, we can say how suitable they are for each other, how harmonious or, conversely, how problematic their path together will be.
Love, alas, is not an eternal thing. It tends to turn into habit, respect, mutual support, and sometimes into alienation, indifference and even hatred.
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Alas, the proverb says that “Love is evil - you will love a goat...”
However, before throwing yourself into such love, maybe it’s worth looking into the chosen one’s bazi card first….
Let's look at what in a man's chart may indicate that he will be a caring, attentive, strong and worthy husband, and what indicates that in life together some traits may appear that will bring bitter and problematic moments.
I would like to immediately make a reservation that all these signs are not the ultimate truth and I do not urge, upon seeing something negative in a man’s chart, to immediately run away from him without looking back. But it's still worth listening.
First of all, you need to look at the Daytime Dominant of a man, who he even is.
Wood-yang - most often, friendly, generous, principled, aggressive, nervous, irritable, jealous, suspicious.
The best wife for this type of man is Yin Earth.
The Yin Tree is the most adaptable of all personality types. Not always, but quite often, Yin Tree men simply “allow” their spouse to take care of them throughout their entire life together.
This is a flexible, tactful, charming and friendly, vulnerable, emotional, at the same time cunning, calculating, insecure and weak type of Personality.
According to the interaction of the Heavenly trunks, there is a “love fusion” between the Yin Tree and the Yang Metal. And despite the apparent incompatibility, this union may just be very successful, but... the woman who will rule in such an alliance will be a Metal-yang woman.
Fire-yang – Fenist, clear Falcon, Red Sun.
Active and dominant, cocky and proud, self-centered, unceremonious and impatient, self-confident and vain.
It is most favorable if the radiance of such a Sun is enhanced by the Metal-Yin wife with her reflected brilliance.
Yin fire is the mysterious flickering of a candle, the reflection of ruby light on the dark coals of a fire. The most impulsive and hot-tempered, unpredictable and independent personality type
Cheerful and charismatic, emotional and passionate, intuitive and proud, but at the same time can be tactless and fussy, unpredictable and annoying, unceremonious and unrestrained.
The best tandem is Yin Fire and Yang Water. This makes the Ocean Water warmer and the Yin Fire more predictable.
Earth-yang. Man is a rock, a mountain range.
Calmness, balance, reliability, caring, friendliness, respectfulness and courtesy are the most characteristic qualities of a Earth-yang man.
Among the negative ones, we can note - stubbornness and conservatism, difficulty in communication and inflexibility, jealousy, greed, suspicion and distrust.
The Earth-Yang will be a wife for a man according to the Bazi system of Water-Yin.
Earth-yin. Calmly, slowly, confidently, the Yin Earth builds its present, perfectly imagining its future.
Kindness and peacefulness, reliability and patience, practicality and realism are positive traits Yin Earth personalities.
Negative ones include excessive guardianship, jealousy and possessiveness.
Yin Earth loves the Yang Tree most of all, however, a harmonious union in the case when the Yin Earth is a man and the Yang Tree is a woman will only be provided that the Yin Earth is strong and powerful, otherwise the Yang Tree will pull all the “juices” come from such a partner.
The Metal-Yan man is a loyal and reliable protector. Honest and truthful, fair and unbending.
A typical Yang Metal has a very harmonious relationship with Yin Wood. The gentleness and kindness of the Yin Tree forces Metal to reconsider its foundations and attitude towards the world around it and helps it become more alive and sociable, teaches it to love, forgive and not hide its emotions.
Men of Yin Metal are most often beautiful, with good color faces with delicate features, graceful and......somewhat cold.
They are very fair. They do not flatter, do not ingratiate themselves, do not make promises if they are not sure that they can fulfill what they promised. And they value the same qualities in people.
The best relationship develops between Yin Metal and Fire-Yang.
But, if a Man is Yin Metal, and a woman is Yang Fire, then it will be difficult for such a man to dominate the family. The light of the Sun will outshine the shine of a gold jewelry or a thin stiletto.
Water-yang. The element is the most powerful, unpredictable, secret and all-conquering. This strong water, which tends to overflow its banks and which can only be stopped by a strong Earth - the land of continents and mountains.
Everything else either collapses, or corrodes, or fades, loses its strength if Yanskaya Water is strong. It is better not to stand in the way of such Water. She always goes ahead, despite obstacles and obstacles.
People of this personality type are not afraid of difficulties, do not like to think for a long time and prepare for upcoming affairs. These are people of action.
Yanskaya Water often dominates in a team, in a family.
A harmonious union develops between Yang Water and Yin Fire, despite the polarity of the elements. Water does not see the Fire Man as a threat to its freedom, and the Flame Man will gladly shine, reflected in the water surface of the Sea-Ocean. Ideally, if marriage union Water is a man, and Fire is a woman.
Yin water. A light cloud, a drop of dew, early morning fog - this is all about the Yin Water person.
Yin Water is the most changeable type of personality, which not only changes and is reborn during its life, it can be different within one day and amazingly change depending on who is next to him.
Men of typical Yin Water know how to give compliments and can make the most unattractive woman believe in their irresistibility. The wives of such men are more likely than others to hear that they are loved and irresistible.
The most harmonious relationships of typical Yin Water most often develop with Yang Earth. Yan Earth becomes a support for Water, which, as a rule, needs some management. Yang Earth will do this unobtrusively, as she loves to take care of others, and Yin Water will easily find a common language and adapt to even the hardest Earth.
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Visually represented by soil, sand and is the soft twin of the Yang Earth.
Yin Earth is the most cooperative and efficient element. People of this type are true team players, capable of working until they pass out. They not only connect and modernize other elements, but also transform themselves to solve problems. They are often mistakenly considered passive and easily vulnerable, but in fact they demonstrate high availability to self-sacrifice to achieve a common goal.
Our heroes are very patient and resistant to punishment of any kind. They are very sensitive to emotional blackmail and resemble putty - once you add water (emotions), it becomes soft and pliable. However, excessive heat (Fire, pressure) makes it hard and brittle. Due to the Earth's Yin sensitivity, you will need true artistic talent to tap into it. best qualities. If you need to form a team, make sure you include several such employees. They will ensure uninterrupted operation even in the most unfavorable conditions. And if the company collapses, they will be the last to leave...
We go around the circle of U-Sin:
Earth is Yin Star of Self-Expression for the element Fire. Like a fine piece of Chinese porcelain, its representatives are works of art. When performing work, they are distinguished by close attention to all aspects and an emphasis on quality. Even though they may spend a little more time/resources to achieve the result than required, the end result will be a real masterpiece. Punctuality is not theirs strong point, therefore, if time is a critical parameter, then it is better to attract additional forces. Such people are not inclined to act according to a schedule.
Yin Earth acts as Wealth Star for Tree. Slow and steady, such a person is excellent at accumulating resources. It's a real talent to collect a little from everywhere. He never brags about his wealth, you may not even suspect anything, which often gives him enough time to create reserves. Our hero is excellent at forming reserves and, if successful, supplies them to others.
Yin Star – Star of Power for Water. Patience is the main virtue of such a person. External factors unable to shake him inner world. He has an incredible ability to ignore what is happening - what happened, happened. Sometimes it tends to muddy the water and slow down the flow of the main stream, creating inconvenience in most cases. A critical factor in working with other people is that Water waits for no one, so without Earth's help it can be difficult to keep up.
Yin Earth represents Resource Star for the Metal element. They are excellent educators, dedicated people who give their all. Their gentle nature makes it easy to use their wealth, all the hidden treasures in them are available to you. They have the amazing ability to turn any thing into useful resources. There are no words in their vocabulary such as useless, trash, etc. Their only mistake may be placing the resource in the wrong place. Give them time and they will find your useful qualities.
