What is included in the concept of gender? What is a genus? Of course, these are parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents. These are three levels of the genus that greatly influence us and our destiny.
But the family also includes aunts and uncles, cousins, nephews and, of course, our children. All ancestors up to the seventh generation. Although sometimes you can look much further and deeper.
If you want to better understand how your family influences your destiny, it is important to pay attention to this area - how your grandparents (and other relatives) lived, what they did, what kind of characters and destinies they had.
You can ask your parents or other close relatives about this if you still don’t know much about the fate of your family. This knowledge of our kind, our ancestors, makes us stable in life and helps us cope with many problems.
Who else influences our destiny?
The clan also includes people who greatly influenced the family, some specific individuals, and events.
For example, these are government officials or doctors who come into contact with many destinies, or philanthropists. Some helped our family, while others, on the contrary, caused some harm.
Very often these are lovers and mistresses, friends, comrades-in-arms, enemies, educators who also contributed to the life of your ancestors.
Many people are included in the family and many influence what happens to us in life. That's why It's important to know that we are connected to so many people. With everyone who influenced the life of our family.
Keep in touch with family
Sometimes we maintain relationships with relatives. For example, I had a beloved grandmother, I always remember her with great gratitude. For me, she is an example of a classic loving grandmother: kind, with radiant eyes, affectionate. She is someone with whom I have a very good connection.
But everyone in our family has people about whom we remember little or remember little. They may be unsuccessful, unsuccessful - no one likes to talk about them. It was as if they had been erased from the family. But this connection is also very important to maintain.
The more connected you feel with your family, the more numerous the threads connecting you with your ancestors. And the more power they can transfer to you.
Family tree
For example, there are families where entire clans gather. I know a woman who compiled her family book, found relatives and organizes conventions where they all meet and tell each other about themselves.
The more connections, the more relatives you know, respect and keep the memory of them in your soul and heart, the more stable you are in life.
By deciding to treat everyone with respect - every destiny, every person thanks to whom you live, you gain freedom and strength to live life to the fullest, without living through the mistakes or experiences of your ancestors.
It is important for you to maintain family ties in this way. If you don’t feel a connection with your family (you don’t know everyone, don’t communicate, etc.), you can simply create and maintain it within yourself.
How many ancestors are in your family?
You don't have to know everyone. For example, you have only heard about someone, and you have not even heard about someone, this is not so important. Imagine a stadium filled with people, and this is all your relatives who lived years and centuries ago.
Feel your state of mind. You have a connection with everyone, energy comes from everyone - this is a huge resource that we have in life. Everyone is important, even the relatives of the ex-husband and adopted child.
All people matter in your life (negative or positive, it doesn't matter). It is important to maintain these connections, because some of our destinies become intertwined.
The influence of gender on fate
This is how the tribal system works, it is regulated due to the fact that unhappy destinies are intertwined with others that exist in this system. The system, as something animate, can balance itself at the expense of fate that has recently arrived.
Very often the balancing act comes at the expense of younger children. It often happens that whoever is younger has less weight in the system. And he lives the experience of an unhappy or disrespected ancestor.
Whether this is fair or not - there is no such concept in the system, balance is important, so the problems of the system are solved at the expense of those who live now.
And if you feel that your problems come from your family - as if you are not living your life - start remembering your ancestors. Start thanking them and treating them with more respect. This will be the first step to feel changes in your life and balance your ancestral system.
To be continued...
Irina Udilova (relation1.ru)
Family relations expert.
Hello,
Have you ever thought about what determines a person’s destiny?
Imagine that absolutely everything is predetermined. That everyone’s fate is written and planned in advance.
When a person is destined to have a certain portion of joy and a portion of sadness. And everything in life happens within this framework. Not a step to the right, not a step to the left, not a jump in place.
Do you feel how stuffy it is getting?
In fact, there is 3 factors that influence a person’s destiny. And two of them really cannot be changed by yourself. And you can't even choose. But the third one...
But let's take things in order.
What influences a person's destiny? Factor #1
The first factor is the stars.
Stars are not just some points in the sky. Stars are a person’s past lives, that is, his actions in the past. In other words, those reactions and consequences that he created through his own actions in this world.
The moment of a person's birth is a special combination of planets. When the planets come to a certain position and (as you know) from each planet comes a certain energetic influence associated with specific characteristics.
Some planets give us strength, some deprive us of strength. Some planets give emotional sensitivity. Some give willpower, the ability to concentrate.
The moment of birth is nothing more than a certain matrix of planetary influence. And when all these energies are concentrated at a certain point, you and I are born. Therefore, the moment of birth is cast of our karma.
Actually, this is where astrology as a science comes from. When an astrologer finds out the birth point and looks at which planets acted at this point. Because this is where destiny comes from.
So, the first factor of human destiny is the stars.
What determines a person's destiny? Factor #2
The second factor is parents.
Parents, in fact, are also the personification of our destiny.
And parents come into our lives for a reason.
Sometimes we are happy with our parents, sometimes we are not happy. But parents are those individuals whose destinies or karmas are connected with each other, and through them we enter this world. The information matrix of their fate becomes our fate.
This is the second factor of human destiny.
The third factor that determines a person's fate
The third factor is special. This is a factor that greatly influences human destiny.
And, by the way, it is precisely connected with him Liberty, which you and I have.
The communication we enter into either causes our degradation, worsening our fate, or will develop us as individuals. This factor is called communication .
Therefore, a reasonable person is very, very scrupulous in choosing his circle of close friends.
The circle of close communication is the people to whom we open our hearts. The people we learn from. With whom we exchange.
And it is precisely the third factor of fate - communication - that is connected with our freedom.
Because, please note, we cannot influence the previous factors. They already determine our lives. They already it is as if she is being pushed in a certain direction.
We have the power to choose yours communication.
How do you perceive this?
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Based on the training by Oleg Gadetsky “Freedom and self-realization. Transformation of negative beliefs"
Several factors influence a person's fate. It's not just space.
What factors influence a person’s fate?
1. The first factor is heredity. Because genetics determines whether a person belongs to the species Homo sapiens. This is not determined by space. This is determined by genetics. Because we came from dad and mom. According to the horoscope, it is impossible to distinguish an elephant from a cat. Genetics determines the biological body.
2. Social conditions. This factor also operates independently of space. A person's realization depends on what country he lives in. People may have the same horoscopes, but they live in different countries. One lives in Africa, in the tropical forest, where the professions are hunter, farmer, shaman and leader. And there are no other professions. And the other lives in America, where, in accordance with the development of technology, there are a huge number of different professions. And career guidance will be different. Social conditions also influence fate.
3. Culture. What a person acquires from his parents, through upbringing and self-education. This also does not depend on the horoscope. A cultured person, no matter how affected Mars is, will not swear. Because that's how he was raised.
4. Space is the fourth factor that influences a person’s destiny.
5. Level of personality development. It is not determined by the horoscope and cannot be recognized by the horoscope. It is determined by the number of incarnations that a person has gone through. The level of personality difference is determined by communication with a person. Criminals tend to have a low level of personality development. Because they have few incarnations behind them. A spiritual person, as a rule, has many incarnations behind him. And his level of personality development is high. And their horoscopes can be exactly the same, whether it’s a saint’s or a criminal’s. But the implementation of the horoscope will be different. In addition, social realization is influenced by the memory of previous incarnations.
It is impossible to become a brilliant artist without mastering this profession, this skill, over the course of several lives. Anyone can learn to draw. But a brilliant artist does not work out right away. It takes more than one lifetime to paint.
Who are the presidents? These are all former kings. If a person has not had incarnations where he was in power, then he will not become president. It is impossible to rise from the very bottom to the very top. In the same way, the instinct of power that presidents have is also cultivated. All presidents have an instinct for power. They were in power in previous incarnations.
Why did Catherine I become queen? She was also a laundress. Because, with Peter I, she behaved like a queen. And the rest of Peter's mistresses behaved like laundresses. And a person’s karmic memory dictates his behavior. This is the potential accumulated in past incarnations.
V.V. Putin became president of Russia. Half a million people were born on the same day. Not one more person became president. Because individual potentials are different. If a person has a leader's formula, he will become a leader. But without the memory of previous incarnations, it is impossible to achieve high power.
6. And there is another factor, this is free will. We are talking about the fact that a person can control events. Because free will exists. We use knowledge and manage our lives. We take some protective measures against troubles. Or we move to another city. The best way to change your destiny is to move to another city, or to another country. Those. change your horoscope.
7. Higher will. This is another factor influencing a person’s fate. She also exists. A miracle is possible, even in a seemingly completely hopeless situation. But a miracle is connected with a person’s faith. If faith is strong enough, then a person can change circumstances, contrary to the horoscope. And something will happen that shouldn't happen. A miracle will happen.
This means that fate is influenced by seven factors and space, only one of them. And we must always understand this.
We all want to live happily ever after, and we all want the same for our children. And when something doesn’t go well for them, we worry - how is it possible, the children grew up in a wonderful family, went to clubs, received an education, were raised carefully, grew up in love, what’s the matter?
For many years, problems of internal harmony, peace of mind, prosperity, personal happiness were associated exclusively with the family where a person grew up, with the education he received, with external data, in the end. And when failures, troubles, losses come, people cannot understand the reasons, they get lost, they curse fate. Meanwhile, the key to understanding and comprehending certain events, answers to the questions - “Why do I need all this?”, can be given by rodology - the history of the family. By recreating it, we can identify the laws by which the race develops, and, consequently, identify the laws of our life. After all, what is a genus? These are our ancestors and us, connected by an unbreakable chain. These are not only blood ties, often these are stable stereotypes of behavior. Sometimes it happens that there are no men in the family and only girls are born. Or the craving for alcohol is passed on from generation to generation. So it turns out that by comprehending the history of the family, you better understand yourself and your relatives.
Rodology as a science was formed recently, although the old healers and healers knew all this, saw the problems of the family, and corrected fate. It is generally accepted that as it is written in the family, so it will be, nothing can be changed. This is not so, a person’s fate is in his hands, it can be corrected. But each of us is a link in a continuous family chain that stretches from the past to the future, weaves from ancestors to descendants. And, knowing the history of our family, we can change not only our destiny, but also the destiny of our children. At best, people only know their grandparents, but this does not interfere with my work, nor does it serve as an obstacle to diagnosing generic problems.
When you begin to “chastise” a person, study his ancestry, information flows in, the secret becomes apparent. What is a reprimand that magicians and healers often talk about? This is the correction of a person’s fate under the influence of rites, rituals, and reading prayers. You need to do “reading” on strictly defined days of the month, usually the lunar calendar serves as the reference vector. Events that threaten a person in one way or another are, as it were, “removed” and smoothed out by the healer. Usually, curses and damage can significantly complicate the life of descendants, create problems, bad luck, and give rise to diseases. Damage can be caused by any person, both consciously and unconsciously.
The parents of two sisters died, leaving behind them an apartment and a dacha, and the division of property began. And one of the sisters, not wanting to share, orders a service in the church for the repose of the other, takes her photographs to the cemetery and buries her there. What is this? Typical damage. Sometimes my hair stands on end from what evil people wish for each other, and how they embody it. Envy can also cause damage.
There is an opinion among people that there is white envy, and it does no harm to anyone. But this is not so: all envy is bad, it is a very evil feeling that gives impetus to the development of negative energy events. Envy accumulated in a person usually results in corruption, now this is common - people come to me whose lives are darkened by just such envy on the part of others. As a result of damage, a person begins to get sick, his children also get sick, continuous failures and losses happen in life, nothing grows together. Damage can extend from generation to generation, transmitted from parents and other ancestors. After all, we are all the rebirth of our ancestors; someone else’s soul cannot be drawn into the mother’s womb. If damage can be inflicted unintentionally, unconsciously, then the curse is usually applied purposefully. There are curses that stretch from generation to generation and haunt a family. Let’s say that the son’s parents dislike their daughter-in-law and constantly scold and curse her in their hearts. This is how a curse accumulates, which stretches through family ties for years. As a classic example, we can cite the Yusupov family, which is all extinct today. Not a single boy in this family lived to be 22 years old. The curse was imposed on them due to a change of religion - from Islam to Christianity, and as a result the entire family was exterminated. Usually the power of the curse lasts 3-4 generations, but if it is imposed specifically on the extinction of a clan, it will act until the entire clan is completely extinct. In this case, only girls are born in the family, boys are not born at all or do not live long. One of the worst sins a woman can commit is taking away someone else’s husband and ruining the family nest. This is a very big sin, which will result in a terrible punishment, because you cannot build your happiness on someone else’s grief!
A woman and her daughter, residents of Ulan-Ude, came to see me. And the mother’s fate did not work out; she gave birth to a married man, and her 39-year-old daughter could not get married. At first I was unable to see the pedigree - a severe burn on the mother’s hand distorted the lines. But everything was clear to my daughter; I saw that her grandmother had taken a man away from a family where five children grew up. As a result, they lived together for only 3 years, and then he was crushed by a concrete slab. In this marriage, one girl was born, who, in turn, also gave birth to one girl. We filmed this birth program for a long time; they had to live in Irkutsk for about 2 weeks. Other typical manifestations of rodology are the mother’s strong subconscious fear for the child, the fear of losing him. This usually happens when mothers have already lost their children in the family. What often happened during the war, during the famine years. As a result, the child grows up in an atmosphere of overprotection and neuroses. Here you can work and remove negative programs and blocks that provoke bad thoughts, which, in turn, attract evil. Sometimes we ourselves arrange programs for our children, we need to think positively.
The second common situation is that a huge number of our ancestors died due to wars and repression, and as a result, modern men have developed a model of care. It can manifest itself in different ways: a man often changes wives, goes into alcoholism, drug addiction, illness, and chooses risky sports. Siberia is generally a very complex region in terms of genealogy, because the descendants of exiles, dispossessed kulaks, Decembrists, convicts, and criminals live here. The energy is the same, and almost everyone has dark spots in their ancestry. But we have the power to change our destiny. If a man has a model of “leaving”, every time he leaves the house, he must tell his wife: "I'll be back in the evening". Thus, reprogramming of negative information occurs. A woman should be reminded: "I'll be waiting for you".
It is important to honor the memory of your ancestors and not forget your roots. If you need help, feel free to ask those who are no longer alive, and they will definitely help. But it is important to know that photographs of the deceased cannot be stored in the same album with the living. Still, these are two different energies, you shouldn’t mix them. As they say, living to living, dead to dead. If people don’t get along with their relatives and deliberately break family ties, this is fraught with unpleasant consequences and can cause harm. Thus, the connection with one’s family is interrupted. But the blood remains, and genes, and genus too. You need to be able to forgive and think about the future generation. After all, by cutting off ties with loved ones, we doom our children to suffering. There are a lot of methods for correction, correction of fate, the most important thing is to find the “root” of the problems, and then work purposefully.
A person’s character qualities are given close attention when hiring, when choosing a family, and on all vital issues. Personnel officers, psychologists, educators, scientists and many others, when characterizing someone, always talk about the leading qualities of a person’s character. It is no secret that character traits have a great influence not only on performance in activities and the harmony of relationships in a team and in the family, but also on the Destiny of a person as a whole. In life, we often come across the fact that you can trust one person with the most valuable things, and he will not let you down, but with another, you feel like you’re on a powder keg. How to determine which of them you are dealing with? How can you update your character traits to change the future for the better? How to transform negative qualities that interfere with life and lead to illness into spiritual and creative ones that give health and joy? Today we are starting a series of publications on this very important topic.
There are no imperfect people - there are those who have fallen away from themselves.
What goes around comes around. Russian proverb
The goal of the development of consciousness on Earth is to develop, through earthly life experience, the qualities necessary for the formation of the cosmic divine principle. The development of human consciousness from the point of view of the energy-informational worldview occurs through a series of incarnations in which certain character qualities are formed as practical developments of consciousness. In the process of life, the matrix of the astral and mental bodies (the body of the Soul) is filled, i.e. The development of the energy and information component of consciousness is underway. In Eastern philosophy they are called chakras or energy centers that connect the physical body with the subtle and fiery bodies. Energy-information centers are channels of the Soul and Spirit bodies that connect a person’s physical body with the energy-information field of the program for the development of his consciousness. The level of qualities of consciousness corresponds to the level of disclosure of a certain energy center and indicates the stage of development of human consciousness. In parallel with the collection of earthly experience (earthly information), a spiritual creative component was formed, manifested as ethical norms - morality and ethics that do not allow a person to act immorally in relation to the outside world.
Man formed all these necessary qualities while receiving earthly experience. All of them were necessary for the formation of consciousness at the cosmic level. Man was driven by desire - a driving force. Primitive man was driven by the instinct of survival through overcoming fear of nature, to obtain food, shelter, etc. Desires became the main driving force and developed civilization further until today.
Any quality, like a magnet, has two poles: bottom and top, plus and minus: low vibration (earthly) and high vibration (spiritual). The spectrum of qualities is located vertically from one pole to the other: from hatred to love. If you remove part of the earthly, then its other pole grows - the spiritual. During life, a transformation of qualities occurs: some begin to form, others, on the contrary, decrease and disappear due to their transition from earthly to spiritual-creative, for example, stubbornness turns into perseverance, greed into generosity, closeness into openness, etc.
A person’s fate directly depends on the qualities of his character and lifestyle. If a person is not satisfied with his fate, he needs to think about changing his character traits and change his lifestyle. In essence, Destiny is a program for a person in his earthly incarnation, which presupposes certain events in life and the formation of certain qualities. This is the path of human development, depending on the sum of all his evil and good deeds in this and past lives. Freeing himself from the burden of karma, bad passions and habits, a person is able to change his destiny. Program yourself to be what you want to be and you will become that way. People say: fate leads the one who wants, and forcibly drags the one who does not want. After all, something always happens to a person that is similar to him and he deserves who he really is.
At first, a person forms a habit, which gradually forms certain character qualities. That's why people say: if you sow a habit, you will reap a character. If you sow character, you will reap destiny. Thus, a person gradually creates his own Destiny, is responsible for his own choices, for his habits, his decisions and actions. It all depends on the person: for some, a whole life is not enough, but for others, bitter experience and a few minutes are enough to understand that life and Fate depend only on ourselves. And in order to change the future and improve your destiny, you need to renew yourself in character qualities through the efforts of the will to sublimate and choose the best. Everything depends on the level of development of a person, on HOW he perceives his Fate, HOW he copes with the difficulties of life, WHO he really is. As they say: as we are, so are the sleighs. A person will control his destiny if he learns to control himself. Difficulties and trials in life help reveal hidden flaws, pushing towards their transformation. Thanks to trials, we receive from fate wonderful gifts of determination, courage, hard work, warmth, awareness, etc. The growth of a person’s consciousness depends on changes in characteristic qualities. All qualities can be divided into four groups:
| Quality level |
Quality of character |
|
top level: a person’s openness to cognition and creativity |
love-knowledge |
| creativity | |
| wisdom | |
| Gratitude | |
| reasonableness | |
| responsibility | |
| exactingness | |
| truthfulness | |
| curiosity | |
|
average level: acceptance of the situation as it is and the person’s ability to show kindness |
cordiality |
| tolerance | |
| softness | |
| gullibility | |
| confusion | |
| disorganization | |
| haphazardness | |
| passivity | |
| commercialism | |
|
low level: closedness to novelty, ignorance, lack of purpose |
weakness of will |
| despondency | |
| self pity | |
| apathy | |
| acquittal - accusation | |
| skepticism | |
| touchiness | |
| pragmatism | |
| laziness | |
|
lowest level: complete closedness to other information, “one’s own opinion”, selfishness, aggressiveness, fear |
narcissism |
| vanity | |
| jealousy | |
| pride | |
| envy | |
| stubbornness | |
| rancor - malice | |
| greed - prudence | |
| impudence - rudeness | |
| hatred |
Thus, as we go through life, we acquire a spectrum of character traits in order to become closer to the level of stellar consciousness and learn to “conquer the beast within ourselves.” It is no coincidence that all fairy tales tell us about the victory of good over evil. Therefore, our task is to form our spiritual and creative centers through renewal, revealing cordiality and love. Then the creative beginning of a person will be revealed - the internal human psychological factor, which has unlimited physical, intellectual and psychological capabilities.
